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Better Sex, Lover: 8 Miraculous Secrets

I love this website: Better-sex-4-women. After posting my blog ” Sex, it doesn’t take much to get it right,” I stumbled upon on this website (http://www.better-sex-4-women.com/) and now receive their posts from some of the most amazing women regarding sex, love, and relationship information. From sex poles to orgasm tips, there is something for everyone including “just for men” too.

Recently, Dr. Mia Glanville gave her secrets to being a great lover and I thought I would share this with you, this is her article:

Like a crusader, I’ve dedicated the last 16+ years of my life to finding the holy grail of satisfying sex. I wanted information about sex that was accurate, reliable, and helpful and not tied to the myths and misleading depictions of the adult-male porn industry – and I knew other women wanted this information as well. Armed with a doctorate in Psychology, I’ve worked with thousands of individuals and hundreds of couples who tell me that they don’t know the secrets of how to make their sex lives work. This is why I went on my own personal journey of demystifying the elusive mystery of what it takes to be an extraordinary lover.

While on this quest I studied happy couples (hard to find, but I did) and sought advice from Eastern and Western mentors, teachers, other psychologists, self-help gurus and sages, so I could find the secret lessons that would make me understand what satisfying sex is all about. These are the questions I asked myself:

- What are the best-of-the-best secrets of having great, ongoing sex?

- Why do some couples have sensational sex and others don’t?

- What keep the passion-fire burning in a relationship?

- Is it possible for anyone to become a great lover?

And finally I “got it!” But most importantly what I learned can help you…

Be an Extraordinary Lover!

You see, what I discovered are the simple, profound truths that make sex miraculous. These secrets pertain directly to how sex invigorates your entire relationship. I have seen firsthand that truly dynamite sex comes not just from technique, but from mastering the underlying dynamics of relationships. Some of these secrets may at first seem like common sense, but one thing I’ve learned is that when it comes to keeping the charge of intimacy, common sense isn’t all that commonly practiced.

8 Miraculous Secrets

How to be a great lover becomes possible with the following secrets:

1. Many people assume that being a great lover is about learning tips on technique, but that is far from the truth. Even though you’ll find a lot written about technique on this very website, there is more to sizzling sex than ‘what goes where’ and for how long. Great Lovers possess an attitude toward sex that is open and curious; they’re willing to learn something new about sex – always and forever. Not only that, they understand the power of their own sexuality, are willing to share it with their partners and will do whatever it takes to keep the flames of passion alive.

2. Amazing lovers love sex. They bask in it, they luxuriate in it. If she knows he relishes oral sex, it helps her to relax into it, which triples the satisfaction. The same for him – it’s impossible to really enjoy being pleasured if you’re concerned about whether your lover likes your taste or your odour. Telling your partner how much you love sex is a gift..

3. Great lovers use their femininity or masculinity to their advantage. There is a subtle but powerful tension between opposites that evokes primal sexual energy and enhances pleasure. The more feminine she is the more masculine he can be and vice versa, which lifts sex to unexpected levels.

4. Extraordinary lovers let their partners know that they are irresistible. Nothing is more effective to revive a sex life gone stale than making each other feel attractive. Saying it is one thing, but it’s even more effective when you show your partner how much pleasure you take in their body. Great lovers delight in each other.

5. Remarkable lovers understand that defining great sex is personal and they’re able to celebrate their differences. There is no one-way-is-the-right-way, or even worse, my-way-is-the-only-way. For one person amazing sex might mean being able to give and receive white-hot orgasms, for another it might be about adventure and play, and for yet another it might be about feeling amazingly close and connected while wrapped in a lover’s arms. Instead of assuming, great lovers communicate: they ask what feels great and tells the same. Even if couples have been in a relationship for years, they can still surprise each other and learn new things about each other.

6. The best lovers know that sensational sex is not only about intercourse. The act of sex is only one part of making love. There is a smorgasbord of pleasurable activities available. Great lovers understand the dance of seduction, and that exploration is essential: playing out fantasies, using sex toys, climaxing in different ways. It’s important to give each other permission to do whatever is desired in any given situation. If she sometimes prefers a vibrator to his tongue, that’s okay. If he sometimes wants a hand-job rather than penetration, why not?

7. Great lovers never, ever compare their partners to anyone else, and especially not to former relationships. It’s easy, when referencing other liaisons – good or bad – to stray mentally, emotionally, or physically from the one you’re in. Each new relationship brings its own responsibility to make it the most satisfying it can be.

8. Sensational lovers aren’t afraid to show their vulnerable side. This goes to the heart of being willing to trust someone you love with your particular weaknesses. The more open you are to sharing your softer side, the more protective your partner will become. Why? Because that’s just what love does.

How to be a great lover is just one part of the better sex 4 women puzzle. We hope you stick around to get the full picture! –Dr Mia Glanville

The Boss and the Underling

I received this poem below in an email the other day. I read it two times.  I don’t know where it originated from, but I can certainly relate to it.

I work for someone that should have their picture posted right beside the poem and a headline reading, “The Boss and the Underling.”   I think many of us working for a company at one time or another have worked for this person.

When I Take a long time to finish,

I am slow,

When my Boss takes a long time,

he is thorough.

When I don’t do it,

I am lazy,

When my Boss does not do it,

he is busy,

When I do something without being told,

I am trying to be smart,

When my Boss does the same,

he takes the initiative,

When I please my Boss,

I am apple polishing,

When my Boss pleases his Boss,

he is cooperating,

When I make a mistake,

you’re an idiot.

When my Boss makes a mistake,

he’s only human.

When I am out of the office,

I am wandering around.

When my Boss is out of the office,

he’s on business.

When I am on a day off sick,

I am always sick.

When my Boss is a day off sick,

he must be very ill..

When I apply for leave,

I must be going for an interview

When my Boss applies for leave,

it’s because he’s overworked

When I do good,

my Boss never remembers,

When I do wrong,

he never forgets.

Here’s to all of us “Underlings” that are very smart and considerate individuals…our time will come! Keep up the great work and never let them get to you!

Michael Jackson, are we really that sad?

I know that we have a legend of music, style, change and one of the best Motown individuals that has driven the force for many artists through the last 30+ years, but what is it that makes us so sad?

Are we reluctant to say how we really feel about this individual? Are we so wrapped up in his legend of music and his past fame that we are oblivious to what has happened over the past decade of Michael being a Mad man. I know that many people will disagree with that synopsis, but look at the facts here?

Synonyms:
1. lunatic, maniacal, crazed, crazy. 2. furious, exasperated, raging, wrathful, irate. 4. ill-advised; unsafe, dangerous, perilous. Mad,crazy, insane are used to characterize wildly impractical or foolish ideas, actions, etc. Mad suggests senselessness and excess: The scheme of buying the bridge was absolutely mad. In informal usage, crazy suggests recklessness and impracticality: a crazy young couple. Insane is used with some opprobrium to express unsoundness and possible harmfulness: . 5. frenzied.

Michael’s musical legend was one that many would love to leave this world with. His fame could not be compared to with the exception of Elvis Presley, but those of us who have children and have followed all of the trials have yet to believe that this individual was anything else but Mad.

For those of you that still have those warm thoughts of him at age 11, and followed his music for many years, are without a doubt sad, but we cannot feel the same as we would have for a loss of someone who had a better character. Did we forget?

Michael needed help a long time ago. How many individuals worked with him over the years, his maids, mates, friends and others who knew that Michael needed help. Wasn’t there anyone who said “NO?”

In conclusion, I feel the death of Michael Jackson is a great loss of talent,  and we are sad like rest of the world. An individual that was at one time a joy to listen to, watch his videos, and grow up with.

RIP Michael, because I think you’ve never had any peace of mind in at least 20+ years!

XBIZ.NET taking Adult Social networking to another level here folks!

Have you ever heard of XBIZ.com, the leading Industry News Network for the Adult Marketplace? They have been around for many years and if you are in the adult industry, this is the place to be for information, news, and connecting to business professionals.

As I was browsing around the website I just happened to go on their XBIZ.net, it’s their industry Social Network and so I signed up in the afternoon to check out the posts and add in my information. By 3pm I already had 8 people connecting, 4 emails and a voice mail to my business inquiring about my new “green” adult toys that I just got involved with called HealthyPleasures. I was very impressed.

I have been a Twitter, Facebook, Delicious, etc. blogger since January and although have networked pretty nicely, I sure didn’t get more than a handshake or someone with an auto reply sending me their message like “glad to meet you,” glad you connected,” or looking forwarding to following you. I have seen way too many messages like that over these past 6 months. Of course, you have to work these sites, and in fact, you would literally have to spend all day on these sites to get some attention, or get yourself an auto “Twit” programming tool that could update your posts on the hour. So, with that said, I am not knocking these sites at all, in fact, I am learning more and more every day on how to be better at it, and making some worthy contacts for business, but that it the point of this little blurb today. Know how to work these sites.

Last week I signed up for ping.fm. If you haven’t heard of this site before, this is one great website that manages your posts and sends them out to all of your social networking sites so you only have to go to one site instead of your long list. I know there are many other sites that provide this service too, but this one is so easy and user friendly. I type in a small blurb on “what am I doing” and in minutes, it’s posted to all of my social networking sites. It’s that easy.

Therefore, as far as social networking goes, I could not be happier that I have connected with so many people in the industry, not to forget all of the other businesses that I have connected with and their great source of information.

Just following people on Twitter, or them following you does not make you a social networking specialist, it’s what you do with all of those followers that matters. Personally, I don’t care if I have a few hundred (actually 1,700) followers, it’s the connections that you want to get out of it to make it all worth while. If you have the wrong kind of people following you because of your name, then delete them, and if you are following a bunch of people that you don’t have any business savvy with, don’t follow them either.  Yesterday, I started deleting all of the people that I once followed because I thought there might be something that I would be interested in. After reading their “just had lunch” and “going for a jog” postings every day, I deleted the batch. Now if I am reading about something that will benefit me, then by all means keep em!

For all of you out there that are experts with all of these social networking sites, I applaud you!! It’s definitely hard work!! xoxoDaniFawn

TOP TWELVE SIGNS – BAD ROOMMATE AHEAD!

12. You expect your roommate to be a Taxi. If you do not have a car and are depending on your roommate to provide you with ample transportation, this is a no no. They didn’t expect to be your Taxi when they signed the lease, so don’t expect them to be at your beckon call.

11. You don’t chip in for household supplies. Being stingy with your money and expecting someone else to pay for community household supplies with isn’t going to win you any brownie points.

10. You bring houseguests over unannounced. This is an important thing to plan ahead for. There’s nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable in your own home if your roommate has frequent uninvited guests. Especially if they hang around all the time, empty the fridge or lounge on your couch all day with the TV remote.

9. You spread your stuff all over the house. You have a room for a reason, don’t keep your shoes, and personal items sprawled out in the living room or any other place in the house that is “community” And, don’t think that you’re going to hang your personal pictures all over the house either. You’re roommates don’t want to look at them every time they walk down the hall.

8. You are nosey and you go into your roommate’s room without their permission. This is a no no and eventually you will be caught! Never go into your roommate’s room without their knowledge.

7. You do your laundry at all hours of the night because you forgot to do it during your days off. Then to top it off, you find laundry in the dryer and dump it in a heap. If you find clothes in the dryer, lay them out flat on the couch or a nice clean area and leave them a note. Your roommates will appreciate your kindness..

6. You leave all the lights on when you leave the house and forget to turn off the TV. Not only does it needlessly waste energy, leaving the lights or TV on also means that you and your roommate pay for it. This actually goes for all utilities that consume energy. Leaving the gas or air conditioner on all day to an empty house won’t thrill your roommate when they see the bill either.

5. You fall asleep with the TV still on in your room with the sound cranked up. You’re roommates want to sleep, too. Sleeping with the TV on consumes energy too, so don’t expect your room mate to pay extra for your sleeping habits.

4. You don’t take responsibility for your messes. If you spill something on the floor, then by all means clean it up right away. Carpet stains don’t get there by themselves.

3. You eat your roommate’s food. If you each pitch in and buy food together then that’s cool. Most of us, however, buy our own food and have a space inside the fridge to put it. Don’t take something without leaving a note or replacing it before they notice it’s gone.

2. You’re late in paying your bills. Pay your bills on time! This is something that will make your roommates angry and then blow-up! Set up a regular direct-deposit fund and use it!

1. You don’t wash your dishes. You might wonder why paying bills late isn’t #1. Ask anyone. If someone has a big problem with their roommate you can nearly guarantee that the dishes is a big part of the problem. Wash your dishes after you use them. Clean the counter space and clean the stove and/or oven too. If you use a dishwasher, set a routine so everyone knows when the dishes are clean so your roommates can take turns helping out with loading and unloading.

NOTE TO SELF AFTER READING THE ABOVE THAT PERTAINS TO YOU OR YOUR  ROOMMATE(S):

That said, having a roommate can be good or bad, and sometimes we need a room mate in today’s economy. Realize that compromise is the best way to survival. However, If you do NOT assert yourself then you will continue to live the way you have been, and you give them permission to take advantage of you. It boils down to who is more important to you, them or yourself. You need to stand up for yourself; starting with laying down the ground rules today.

Looking for some good news! We got it in Vegas, Brothel News and Naked Boy News!

There was MTV in the 1980’s, then we moved into more mainstream with MTV2, and the list goes on. After MTV and music videos, we got bored and reality shows were a big hit!  Those who watch and are a fan of this newest attempt to have a larger share in the market, can only decide the fate of its continued success.

Now in 2009 and as far as the news is concerned, we now take to the new Sheri’s Brothel News and Naked Boy news.  That’s right, you heard it here, the Brothel in Pahrump, Nevada, Sheri’s Ranch, is doing the news once a week for all you fans out there! http://www.sherisranch.net.  The girls are fun to watch, take you to places where you might not have been before, and in the comfort of their own home (so to speak).  What else could a man want?  In addition, they deliver the sports news too and can really throw you a curve ball!  It may not be your typical sports cast, but who cares when you can see those bouncing breasts instead of a dark suit delivering that small segment to brighten your day! Actually, I saw their five or six segments on You-tube and they were fun and informational!  There was a segment on “Adopt a Clitoris” at the 2009 AVN Adult Convention in Las Vegas, Nevada that was very informative and made me want to buy one of their T-Shirts and donate some bucks to this very worthy cause. Their bouncy blonde correspondent was cheery, fun and gave the news as if she were an anchor for years. Overall, the Brothel news is good attempt at bringing some fun to this boring industry, and I hope that enough people enjoy watching their little blurbs each week will add to their production, and in time, who knows, we might get a mainstream brothel anchor doing the Channel SR69 News in the near future!  Now wouldn’t that be better than reality TV or MTV? 

Along with the Brothel news, we now have the Naked Boys News. J. Son (Jay Dot Son) is live every Thursday in Las Vegas at KRAVE Nightclub inside the Planet Hollywood. He feels it is best to say his true feelings on today’s top headlines and sharing his political views “in the nude” that’s right bare ass naked, well, maybe not all the time. He actually has his very own official Tour underwear company believe it or not: http://www.andrewchristian.com/ . Along with a lot of publicity he has gotten over the last year, and well deserved, this guy is very intelligent, funny and an absolutely charming individual. He is packing his bags in June from Las Vegas, Nevada and taking off to the East Coast to perform at comedy clubs, nightclubs and other venues. Each show will be as unique as Jay himself with an original mix of his skills from newscaster to comedian.  For more information and how to keep tabs of this up and coming rising star check out his site at: http://www.nakedboynews.com/

Living in Las Vegas, Nevada for almost 14 years. Written articles on the Adult industry, people, cool places, and whatever is on my mind for that day! xoxoDaniFawn

Who is left of the old school comedians?

I was watching Don Rickles on Jay Leno last week, (Heck, I thought Jay was leaving and the redhead was taking over), but as I listened to him talk I thought, Wow! Not too many of the Old Vegas Comic headliners left. At least not too many with a legendary name like Don Rickles. He said he was 83 years old, and I think his humor is still amazing. He had the audience rolling in the isles on the show!

So, who is left out there of the old school comedians? George Carlin was one of the older ones that recently made the list of those who are no longer with us, and the next generation started dying off too soon like; John Belushi, John Candy, Chris Farley and recently Bernie Mac just to name a few. I went on Wikipedia and found a list of comedians. I really thought there were more on the list than there were. There were quite a few that came from Canada and with Second City and Saturday Night Live, helped them with their careers not only in comedy but movies too.

The only thing now is that the comedian stature isn’t lasting as many generations. We all know the very talented Robin Williams. When he started making movies, then we didn’t see him very much on the comedy trail. But, his name is famous. Who doesn’t know him? But, it seems to me that there are a lot more out there that don’t keep this type of status for very long. I think it might be that we just want something new and faster and better all the time. Heck! I can’t even remember half of the comedian’s names. I know I’ve seen them on Leno, or maybe at a Comedy club, but their names don’t stick with me like the older group did. There are a few that are still in the high comedian ranks like Jeff Foxworthy, Bill Engvall, Ellen DeGeneres, Adam Sandler to name just a few. So, my question is, why are not hearing much about the ones that did have a household name? What about Drew Carey & Eddie Murphy. Maybe they just perform in other cities and not in Las Vegas very much. I remember when Las Vegas had lots of comic headliners. Now we get more of Jay Leno (boring),  Bill Engvall and Dana Carvey performs here quite a bit too.

We have a few of our regular comedian headliners like Louis Anderson at the Luxor who is a great star in his own right, and with his cartoon, two published books about his family life (very funny), his show will keep you laughing as soon as you sit down.  Rosanne came back for a while with her show, but I haven’t heard much about it. Now we have Terry Fator who although isn’t labeled a commedian, his show mixes music and a comedy routine with his puppets.

It’s not that we don’t get headliners, we just don’t get a lot of the older and more seasoned comedians who can take an audience and work them up until they almost pee their pants! Oh! Well! I hope that some of the great ones come out of retirement and will grace the Las Vegas stages soon!

 

Sex, Camera, Action

 

Today I went on line to do some research on how many Escort websites there were listed in Vegas. Well, I am sure they are not exactly in Vegas, but they will manage to get the lady that you saw on line to your door if she is available. After spending about 4-5 hours reviewing site after site, I found quite a few of the same ladies posting their information on all of the sites. Maybe they got a package deal! After a while, all the websites all starting looking the same, give or take, so I decided to stop at about 75 pertaining to the Las Vegas market.

I was amazed to see pricing information on quite a few websites, plus complete stats of size, shape and anything else to get you to “know” them, and as much as they can get away with showing you what they look like. What I did notice is how perfect all of the photos were. I can only imagine that the people who take these photos are taking them for all the ladies. They are flawless, hair and make-up perfectly in place, and all have professional posing.  I’ll bet she doesn’t look like that when she arrives. Oh! Wait! She probably does because she would prefer to work at night when the lights are low!  Ha! Ha! But seriously, I’ll bet all of these ladies are probably in some serious competition all vying for the same guy’s attention, so the photos are their first foot in the door…and hopefully not their last. If the lady even gets an email, she must have to work some long-ass hours (no pun intended.)

How I found most of the websites was clicking on this site: www.OpenAdultDirectory.com. They had everything imaginable in their listings from Escort, Massage, Transsexual and BDSM categories. What I did not see on most of the sites was a Brothel category. Imagine that!  The only site that had a Brothel listed was: www.702vegasescort.com.  They even had one of the Sheri’s Ranch ladies posted on that site, (she doesn’t work at Sheri’s anymore) and a full shot of her big tits too. The listings go on and so on and so on like a Prell Shampoo commercial. They all have links on them that will take you even further down the Escort trail to where it ends no one knows!

Back to my ranting and raving as in my previous blogs about why we don’t have legal brothels closer to Las Vegas.  Plus there should be more on-line collaboration with these escort services. Right! That’s the problem! No one is supporting SAFE SEX!!! What is wrong with everyone? These websites are coming out of the woodwork and the brothels are barely staying afloat any more! OK, so they are a bit more expensive, but what is it worth?  I don’t know about you, but if I were a guy, and wanted some discreet fun, I certainly wouldn’t want to put my dick in just any Escort. I know that I could probably pick up a girl for free and take her home, and I would be using protection like anyone else, but that takes work. If I didn’t want to go through the wining and dining, then having discreet safe fun at a brothel is the way to go, and you don’t have to worry about the police knocking on your door.

So, in conclusion, is there this much sex (or whatever) out there going on in practically every hotel and motel room in Las Vegas provided by Escort services. Looks like it to me. If you do the math, there is a lot of money in this business and for every girl that posts herself and follows through with their services; you can bet the financial food chain is enormous!

Sex Sells, and Adult Toys are selling like Hotcakes! (Toxins and all!)

OK, I posted a little Press Release back a few months ago about these great new Adult products that I got involved in called Healthy Pleasures. Did you happen to see the website? http://www.healthypleasures.com.

The reason for writing my rant today was I just read some more information about BPA chemicals. Don’t take my word for, there are tons of websites on these chemicals that are increasingly hurting us and babies too! http://www.organicconsumers.org/school/bpa041505.cfm. There are more and more chemicals being found these days in just about everything that the government obviously is taking heed to now. They are more harmful than we realize and we are absorbing these into our system when we use toxic toys too.  I think I will be the new Erin Brockovich of the toy industry. I am going to start my own blog talk radio soon and hope you will call in and talk to me about anything your little heart desires when it comes to adult novelties, brothels, and just good ‘ole sex. If you read my Sin blog on “Sex, it doesn’t take much to get it right,” you’ll know how I feel about sex and getting it right, and toys are a lot of fun to use with or without your mate.

So, with that said, how is it the toy industry has not thought of being a little safer too? Now we are also hearing about all of the crap that is coming in from the big “C” and the toxins in just about everything we are using. So, what is going on suddenly? Why are we still doing all this business with these companies? After all is said and done, and we got so many great deals with the stuff that is made overseas, what do you think is going to end up happening?  We’re all going to be dying off here in the U.S.!  Yeah! I can just see it now, the medical bills are going to pile up with all of the deformities, birth defects, prostrate cancer, cancer and the list goes on. So, to save a few dollars, and get things CHEAP, we are going to pay for it in the long run!

I don’t know about you, but I think we should start trying to form more companies that we can control what goes into the products. Let us get back to the basics, it’s really not that hard and when purchasing adult novelties, then look at buying them without all the heavy toxins like Phthalates and BPA chemicals and be able to put them in the dishwasher to sterilize them too!  Oh, it’s not just about promoting a product, this company is still cottage industry and who knows how big it will get, what it is, is a group of people that saw a need that better stuff should be made and controlled only by them and then put this information out there so we get people to listen. Hopefully,  you are one of them. http://www.healthypleasures.com. Thanks for reading, DaniFawn